When someone decides to join the Usa military, they're choosing to consecrate their lives to 7 core values: respect, responsibility, loyalty, selfless service, honor, integrity, and personal bravery. In other words, they may be going to make shielding the country their primal instinct.
Yet, there isn't any choice involved with leaving behind family members. Wives, in certain instances that are heartbreaking and in particular, forfeit their relationships knowing there's a chance they'll never see them, they do not.
Although we don’t understand or constantly contemplate the battles that families of active – but specially deceased – servicemen go through, tomorrow is a day dedicated to acknowledging just that: The unmarked sacrifices that veterans’ survivors result in our country.
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Paying Tribute to Countless Gold Stars
On April 5, GSW salutes the widows and widowers of veterans who gave their lives whether through service-connected injuries, illnesses, or disabilities.
When military families would fix a golden star to the original blue star banner displayed in your home to signify their loved one’s passing the day goes back to World War I. It is also a time for surviving partners and their children to come together in support of every other, as “merely a service spouse understands difficulties and the grief of another service spouse,” says GSW.
GSW has local chapters all over America, whose 10,000-plus members attend meetings and sponsor actions. The organization supplies resources and battle opportunities, also distributes national and regional newsletters about changes in legislation concerning military survivors, and holds Area Seminars annually throughout March and April.
Plus this awareness day that is unique, these initiatives, honor the memory of those who made the ultimate sacrifice: dying for our state and foster expectation among military families.
How Many Terrible Departures Came to Be
Unfortunately, this sacrifice is even more comprehensive in scope than believed.
Sickness has ever been a historically leading cause of death. In the Civil War, for circumstance, for every 3 soldiers killed in conflict, 5 others were killed by means of a disease.
Needless to say, back then, medication unable to treat sicknesses that may be readily cured now and was still in primitive periods. But even veterans had diseases that we do today, n’t completely understand. Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), which can result in suicide, for example; or asbestos-associated diseases, such as mesothelioma.
Asbestos, a mineral that was carcinogenic, used to be prevalent in all 5 armed service divisions: Air Force, Marines, Coast Guard, Army, and the Navy. For many years, the material was believed to be an effective and inexpensive way of fire resistance and insulation or heat. Such qualities, sadly made asbestos ample in shipyards and military bases.
Asbestos is the only real known source of mesothelioma – an aggressive, fatal cancer having a rather poor prognosis – and asbestos-containing product manufacturers kept this fact hidden for many years.
The fatal cancer can come as a terrible shock to those impacted, because mesothelioma symptoms can take up to 50 years to materialize. New cases are only now surfacing for Gold Star families of veterans who served decades past. These families need every one of the love, support, and justice for this undeserved trauma they are able to get, because a cure hasn't yet been discovered.
The lives of people who lost loved ones are altered forever. You can find a lot of people who are oblivious of what this means to be a Gold Star wife or relative, but it’s a conversation worth having in every community. The more the consciousness of misunderstood reasons for so much loss of life, the better.
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